Sunday Sweetness

Today I met a friend of mine from the Coast Guard and a group of her friends at Discovery Park for Shakespeare in the Park and we watched Antony and Cleopatra. It was a wonderful rendition of a great story and I loved sitting out in the sunshine at the park. I couldn't help but think about how this was a remarkable way to spend a day and how each day of my trip has been fabulous despite the airline losing one of my bags. I attribute a great deal of this to some of the things I have been learning in class. I didn't fret over the lost bag and have put the idea of envisioning the worst case scenario (not getting the bag back) and also thinking about the best case scenario (getting the bag back) and contemplating the likelihood of either of those situations. It helped me to realize that either way I am spending some time visiting great people I don't get to see very often en route to a climbing trip that I am positive is going to be an amazing experience for me. We finished the evening by traveling to some other friend's apartment that has a rooftop BBQ area for tenants and had a fantastic Sunday Dinner and enjoyed some wonderful conversation. I had a great day and made a bunch of new Coast Guard friends. All of this has me very excited to see what the rest of the week has in store.

Dirty Face

I arrived in Seattle late on Friday night and took off on an epic journey. I accompanied my brother and his friend out past Wenatchee to help his friend load his moving truck. We woke up early and loaded the truck up and then ventured off to one of my favorite spots from my own childhood. I used to go to summer camp at Lake Wenatchee every year and I love passing through Leavenworth and then spending time at the lake. We stopped in Leavenworth and stocked up on some supplies and then headed off to the lake. My good friend Pat was going to meet us there but he was stuck in traffic, so we decided to see if we could some how find a camping spot to be able to stay the night since we would be starting our hike so late. We lucked out and got the last spot at Glacierview campground and it happened to be an amazing site right on the lake looking up at Dirty Face, our intended hike. I have hiked it several times in the past but Kyle and Pat had never attempted it. It is a 9 mile hike round trip that gains 4000ft of elevation on the way up, so it averages almost a 1000ft a mile on the way up. I love it, but they complained a lot, until we got to the top and they saw the majestic views. It was swarming with bugs, but the vantage point is so captivating we did not care. We completed the hike at a brisk pace of 4 1/2 hours which was far better than our goal and the listed average time. As we sat in the frigid lake afterward, Pat expressed great satisfaction in our accomplishment and set a goal to bring others there to experience this great place. We then enjoyed a great night around the campfire!

Adaptable

On Friday I headed off to the airport to begin my journey to Washington State to go climb Mt. Adams. I barely made my flight and was a little worried about my luggage making it on board since it had all my climbing gear in it. During my layover in Denver my flight was canceled due to mechanical failure on our scheduled plane. I then spent a couple of hours in the customer service line waiting to see what my new travel arrangements would be. I was told the earliest confirmed flight I could get was Sunday morning. They listed me on some standby flights, but I had already decided to make the most of it and find a place to enjoy some higher altitude since that is why I was heading out to Washington a week early. I then decided to see if I could make the last flight on Friday night and if I didn't I was going to enjoy the city and not stress about my circumstances. I was the last standby passenger to be accepted onto the flight and as I was boarding I checked my phone and discovered that some distant family & a good friend who lived in Denver wanted to spend the day together if I was stuck there. I was a little sad to be boarding once I discovered this, but was glad that I was prepared to have fun regardless of my circumstances. Once I landed in Seattle I learned that the airline had misplaced one of my bags, but the bag with all my climbing gear had safely arrived. Now I am just missing all my clothes and my climbing boots. Hopefully it will arrive soon, but I will enjoy this trip regardless of the things that come up along the way.

We Seek After These Things

I spent the weekend as a chaperon for a church youth conference. I was not originally planning on being one of the chaperons, but a lack of volunteers made me change my plans. I was a little bitter that nobody else stepped up for these young people and as we sat down that night for our chaperon meeting, the director commented that he knew we had all had busy lives and had made sacrifices to be there, but that this was the best place we could be for these young people. I let that thought destroy any notion of bitterness that I had and allowed it set the stage for a wonderful weekend. The theme is based on our faith's 13 article of faith:

"We believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men; indeed, we may say that we follow the admonition of Paul—We believe all things, we hope all things, we have endured many things, and hope to be able to endure all things. If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things."

As I listened to the workshops the youth attended and the counsel they received to help them seek after these things, I was strengthened in my own resolve to seek after these things. I enjoyed this trip so very much and cherish every opportunity I have to encourage and strengthen the youth. I thought about how all the thoughts that were shared during that conference help encourage hardiness in these young people. One talk focused on adversity and how every trial in our lives prepares us for something and strengthens us. Another focused on surrounding yourself with people who will not allow you to be mediocre. A third focused on knowing who you are. The keynote address talked about actively choosing to seek after the good things listed in the 13th article of faith. Leaving that conference I felt confident that each of those young people had been better prepared to face the world, I know that I deeply edified!

Lack of Hardiness

I have had an member of my team who has had severe struggles over the last 6 months and it has been a serious challenge as the rest of our team has attempted to help him deal with his problems and progress professionally. Some days it felt as though we were making progress, but in the end I felt as though we had not provided him with all the help he needed. I had a realization as we were helped him load his moving truck that he lacked Hardiness in every category. He constantly viewed everything he faced in life from a position of it was out of his control. He avoided any form of a challenge and most preferred being told exactly what to do and how to do it. In the end, even his commitment falter and this was the one attribute that had been high when I first met him. His lack of hardiness made the stress of the move more than he could handle and another team member and myself (his two supervisors) had to load his entire house into a truck by ourselves. As I worked, I found myself wondering if it were just impossible for some people to develop hardy attitudes. We had spent countless hours working with him and trying to help him develop personally, but I truly feel as though we failed and am left wondering what I could do differently if ever placed in a similar situation?